The shy one is usually preferable to the super confident one., Those can be more talk than action and just get on your tits. We can’t have that can we? Now a guy may not always feel self confident but than again, who does? You can always try to give the impression that we are. It could be that before long you won’t have to act like we are confident because we will just become confident.
The middle way in the shy-confidence zone may be the best, but I don’t see as many people in the middle as some do. Could be the sort of life I lead and the people I know and the people I meet.
